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If I had wings, I would be someone who's forgotten how to fly. <br>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">On a rainy afternoon, he stared at the drops on the window wondering what he could do to pass the time. As he watched a couple of them race down, he remembered his adolescent and early teenage years when he'd sit and play on his video game console for hours without giving the slightest regard to the weather. He went into his room and dug out an old box and there it was, the mechanical companion who'd given him so much happiness through the years. He wondered if it would still work, so he started looking for the accessories. He found the power adapter, the controllers and the cartridge that had his favorite game. He was ecstatic! He plugged it in and made all the connections like he was Dr. Frankenstein creating his monster. The screen turned on and he started his favorite game. On the screen, it said 1 player or 2 players. Then he looked around the empty room and realized that he was missing the most important thing of all.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Batman and DC fan(but of course!), connoisseur of rock (from death metal to folk, Viking, melodic, etc etc to groove- he knows it all), lover of cats and dogs alike (ahh, kindred spirit!), fellow gif maniac, gamer and another one of those amazing friends! </span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-65931907687483284162017-10-10T22:33:00.000+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.169+05:30The Friends We Have...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="text-indent: -18pt;">6. The one friend from college who welcomes you into her circle with excitement. </span><i style="text-indent: -18pt;">It’s like the first year all over again.</i></div>
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<span style="text-indent: -18pt;">9. The friends you spend all morning cooking with. </span><i style="text-indent: -18pt;">I didn’t know cooking could be this fun when you’re around people whose company is never boring.</i></div>
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<i>Today, I thought I’d write about anxiety and depression, but I wasn’t ready yet. So instead I chose to write on happiness and positive thoughts. A lot of what I’ve been writing here recently has been about good thoughts, perhaps its experiences, perhaps not, but if you’re hurting right now, I want you to be able to read something that makes you feel a tiny bit lighter. <o:p></o:p></i><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-23006241664343042322017-09-17T10:37:00.001+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.098+05:30Thank you<p dir="ltr">1. To that friend who listens to me whine and knows my secrets.</p>
<p dir="ltr">2. To my parents who suffer me and are ultimately always there to support, although they don't make me realise it all the time.</p>
<p dir="ltr">3. To my brother who forgives easily and asks for forgiveness with equal ease.</p>
<p dir="ltr">4. To the wonderful guy who sends me a heart every morning to cheer me up.</p>
<p dir="ltr">5. To the friend who made life a bit easier for four months and who will soon leave the country.</p>
<p dir="ltr">6. To the old friends far away who still call, even when I don't always do the same.</p>
<p dir="ltr">7. To the friends who taught me friendship isn't forever.</p>
<p dir="ltr">8. To the person who taught me what love shouldn't be and to the person who taught me what love needs to blossom.</p>
<p dir="ltr">9. To that stranger who smiled so brilliantly at me that I will never forget it.</p>
<p dir="ltr">10. To the friend who insists I get a jacket and brings a sweatshirt for me.</p>
<p dir="ltr">11. To the stranger who asks me how my day is going.</p>
<p dir="ltr">12. To the friend who makes impromptu plans and brings me out of my comfort zone.</p>
<p dir="ltr">13. To the authors who write books that help me escape.</p>
<p dir="ltr">14. To everyone who shows a little bit of care, unexpectedly, which makes me believe a little bit more in humanity.</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-59826613832213099902017-07-17T20:50:00.001+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.160+05:30Of Happiness<p dir="ltr">We'd been driving for quite a while now. The winding road led deep into  forests and areas yet to be to be scarred by humans. It was quiet. Trees on either side enveloped the road and hugged its sides. <i>Even the road had someone by its side</i>, I mused.  The canopy gave glimpses of a cloudy sky now and then. </p>
<p dir="ltr">It had been a tough week. Work, family, and relationships, everything seemed to have taken a downhill road. I felt like I was barely holding everything together and not breaking down in the middle of a  meeting seemed like a great achievement. Nights were getting harder, for sleep had become more elusive. Haunting memories of how it was before returned, I had promised myself I wouldn't let myself go through something like that again. But lately that promise had been harder to keep. I didn't want to spend nights drowning in tears and pretending I was happy the next day, again and again. The idea itself was tiresome.</p>
<p dir="ltr">I was broken out of my reverie when his hands laced through mine and held them tightly. I hadn't realised we had stopped. The view was breathtaking. Miles and miles of forests and lush greenery, and a distant river glittering like diamonds in what little light the clouds let through. I heaved a sigh and looked at him. He had already been looking at me...we smiled and stayed, I don't know how long, but it didn't seem like such a long time.</p>
<p dir="ltr">"<i>Are you happy now?</i>", he asked, his brow furrowed with worry. It was so very tempting to straighten those lines of worry. </p>
<p dir="ltr">"<i>Yes..</i>", I replied, "<i>so much</i>." One silent tear rolled down my left cheek. I felt his hand squeezing mine, I squeezed back, and we smiled again. "<i>Thank you</i>", I whispered. He turned my hand and brought it up to his lips, and lightly kissed the back of it.</p>
<p dir="ltr">And we sat like that for a long <u>time</u>, silently, holding hands, perhaps both of us wishing for the moment to never end. And as we sat, for once, the universe did seem to be conspiring for us. If ever there could be a perfect day, it was this and my heart grew lighter as time grew more envious.</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-64305046043872395922017-07-10T11:31:00.000+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.165+05:30The Weekend Getaway<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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The initial plan of taking a train to Mysore completely flopped, it resulted in me standing in quite a bit of awe at the number of people standing outside the Bangalore Railway station at 5:30 am to get a general ticket. I learnt that the reserved compartment ticket counter does not open until 8 am (sighing-I should have booked it online earlier, but no, I wanted to get the experience of booking a ticket just before the journey).</div>
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So that resulted in me looking around for a bus to Mysore from Bangalore. Thankfully, previous research helped. I took a bus from Kempegowda Bus Stand to Satellite Bus Stand, which is about a 5-10 minute journey (witnessed a speeding bus hit a bike at a crossroad), and from this bus stand, took a bus to Mysore(they have regular buses from here to Mysore).</div>
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The journey was pleasant enough, I was drowsy owing to the early morning waking up (3 am, I kid you not). Soon enough, the half empty bus, filled to capacity, and a man in his late forties sat beside me. Drowsy me chose to ignore everyone until we reached the mid-way point and stopped for tea. Then, I just couldn’t sleep. Soon enough I found an enthusiastic talker in the man, and having received his opinion on how I should proceed, what I should do and what I should never buy (scarves are over-priced in Mysore, he told me), I thanked him for his kind suggestions, he disembarked one stop before me, while I got off on the next.</div>
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Having already planned an itinerary and hell-bent on visiting every place I had jotted down after much debate, I embarked after those, after a pleasant lunch. My first destination was Somnathpur Temple, situated about 35 km away from Mysore. Due to perhaps the distance of the place, the place was not much traversed by tourists. A quick talk at the cab agency led me to conclude that I’d be way over budget if I chose to take a cab. The only other option was a bus (unless I chose to hitch-hike, which is a huge no-no in India). From what I had read before, there were no direct buses to the place, I was supposed to take a bus to Bannur, and from there a bus to my destination. The locals I talked to supported the claim. So a bus to Bannur was what I got on. Having no clue as to how I was supposed to change buses, or where, I talked to the conductor of the bus, a lady. She turned out to be one of the sweetest and most helpful people I met there. After we reached Bannur, she got off with me; talked to the conductor of another bus about my destination, and made sure I got on the bus safely. I ended up feeling like a little girl, but hey, I was grateful for the help. The new conductor was another cheerful fellow, who kept reassuring me that he’ll get me safely to my destination, much to my amusement. And voila, within no time, I had arrived. I was bid goodbye with the correct directions to the temple, and a girl who had got off with me, pointed it out while we walked together towards it as well. It was hardly 100 meters away. When I think about it, I am still amazed at the helpfulness and concern of the local people in Mysore and near bouts. It makes me happy and all warm inside.</div>
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The temple with its gorgeous architecture did not disappoint; so many stone carvings depicting age-old stories of Gods and Goddesses. Not being a frequented tourist destination, it was serene and retained its magnificent voice, not yet drowned by the crowding hordes of tourists. There I met a young lady, who had travelled one boring Saturday afternoon all the way from Bangalore on her scooty for a quick-getaway, two different Malayali families and the prettiest little girl I had ever seen, she was visiting with her family I supposed.</div>
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Soon enough, I was back in Mysore and on my way to the famous Vrindavan Gardens. By the time our bus got through traffic, it was already 7 pm and the sun had set some time back. A short walk down a road had me stare aghast at the sheer amount of humans crowded in there. I decided to move forward anyway, I wasn’t going to go back after travelling for almost 2 hours to get here. I walked down the path that led to the gardens, I didn’t notice the group of men/ boys I had passed until claps and leers drew my attention to them. I glanced back quickly and was a bit shocked to find they were intended at me-a girl travelling without company. It was crowded and it was dark. I chose to ignore them and walked quickly towards the gardens, thinking perhaps I was wrong and simply over thinking this. In order to convince my brain, I walked into the garden, off the path through some bushes and proceeded to stand near a fountain. I was lost in the moment, it was night, the fountains sprayed water on you, and it was pleasant. A few pictures later, I figured there’s more to explore, and started to move away. I turned to move deeper into the garden, but as soon as I did, I got a definitive shock; the bunch of men had decided to follow me into the garden through the same bushes. I admit I was freaked out, I didn’t think they would actually come through the bushes, the same way I had (it was not a path; I had simply used it as a means of escape). I circled around back to the bushes and onto the path again, praying I wasn’t seen. Things that ran through my mind- I singled out a family to whom I could ask for help and prepared whatever resource I could use, just in case something happened, including my voice. So I stood behind the bushes and watched these men look around for me (I could understand pieces of what they were saying, it was Tamil I believe-“where did she go”, “where”). I breathed a sigh of relief as I saw them move deeper into the gardens. I quite literally semi-jogged the opposite way, across a bridge, through those garden, back across the bridge, a short walk, and onto the next bus back to Mysore. Yep, that’s how my visit to Vrindavan Gardens went. Exhilarating, to say the least. After I had calmed down enough, my mind wandered over to more important things, like dinner, and a sudden craving for pasta surfaced. A quick search led me to this quaint little Italian place called The Old House, and I admit the pasta was delicious.</div>
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Some of the best conversations I’ve had have been with strangers. It’s so easy to forget real life for a moment and lose ourselves in our problems with strangers, knowing that you probably will never see them or speak to them again. There’s something almost magically transient about it, feeling the weight of your unheard stories lift off of your shoulders. It’s like you are losing your worries into the wind whose currents will carry them far, far away, if not for a while, for a moment at least. It’s always left me wondering how easily I can reveal my fears to strangers but not to the ones who love me. I suppose that’s how all of us are. We tell strangers things because there is no commitment, no staying on until we separate, no promises, unlike with the ones we love and who love us. Uncertainty, the uncertainty of them, of a future with those we love, with the ones who love us, because, let’s face it, it’s human nature, nothing is permanent. I like to think we are all aware of this folly in us, yet we keep hoping, hoping we might be the exception to the rule.</div>
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If you really think about it, there are so many things that could cheer you up, little things, accidental things, stumbling upon an unexpected circumstance, immeasurable, momentary, ephemeral...<br />
Imagine a lousy day, you've been stressed out and overloaded with work, nothing is going the way you want, yes, you know, that kind of a day, what makes you feel good? What makes you feel a little bit better? What makes you happy?<br />
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I have thought about it a lot during the past few days, and have deliberated my actions towards those things which make me happy after a lousy day, and trust me, it has helped me feel at least a little bit better.<br />
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1. <b><i>Writing down what I am grateful for</i></b>. If things are not looking up, and life at that moment seems impossible, I try and remember all the things I am fortunate to have. No, it doesn't always work, but it helps. I also have daily reminders set before I end the day reminding me to be grateful for at least one thing. Every day at 10 pm sharp, my phone pings and reminds me to sleep with a grateful heart.<br />
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2. <b><i>Pizza/ Choco Lava Cake/ French fries</i></b>. Yes, you heard me right. Eating junk food makes me happy. I don't know how, I don't know why, but it does and it will remain on the top of my lists and I am not ashamed to admit it.<br />
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3. <b><i>Helping a random stranger/ or even a friend</i></b>, without expecting anything in return. If the world has been especially cruel to you, and no matter how many times you have tried, life just doesn't seem fair, well, what better way to make the world a better place than to lend a hand unconditionally to someone.<br />
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4. Thinking of those dear souls who love you and take time out of their day for you. Be it your <b><i>family or friends</i></b>, there is someone in the world who cares about you, and you my friend are lucky to have them. Thinking about them makes my heart fill with joy. Be it those crazy friends of yours who take the day to spend time with you, fall asleep during your night movie sessions, come to see you off, send you daily reminders of how loved you are, inspire you to take one more step, or that family of yours, who even though you fight with on a regular basis, you always keep going back to them. Maybe <b><i>spend some time with them</i></b>.<br />
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5. <b><i>Treat yourself</i></b>. Spend a day pampering yourself, Take yourself out on a date, keep those phones away (except to make reservation at that restaurant you always wanted to try out or at that new spa), read a book, pursue a hobby, go trekking, travel, cook, buy some flowers, go crazy dancing or singing, lose yourself in the pursuit of whatever it is you love to do.<br />
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6.<b><i> Connect with your old friends.</i></b> I admit it, I am a very bad friend when it comes to keeping in touch, I'm horrible at it. So if any of you are reading this (you know who you are), I am sorry. I love the fact that I can call you guys and we can start off as if we never stopped talking. Those precious gems in your life!<br />
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7. <i><b>Clean and organize.</b> </i>I don't know what is it about organizing and going on a cleaning spree that cheers you up. It helps me think clearly, get a better hold on life.<br />
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8. <b><i>Get your perspective right. </i></b>Write down your goals. Write down how you are going to achieve it, make steps, divide, work on each step, one at a time, tick them off on your list, put milestones, and celebrate when you achieve them.<br />
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9.<b><i> Exercise and yoga. </i></b> Burn out all that stress and worry you have been holding up, If you're mad, take it out on that jog and run an extra mile. Or take deep breaths as you take control over your body,<br />
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10.<b><i> Pray.</i></b> When in doubt, when you feel hopeless, when things haven't looked up for ages, when you feel alone, <i>kneel and pray</i>. Let all your emotions drain and surrender. Perhaps you don't believe in God, and that's okay too. Even if you don't, send a little prayer out into the universe and hope to be heard, you never know if you'll get to hear something back.<br />
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11. <b><i>Cry.</i></b> Personally, I have never been a big fan of letting people know I cry. But that doesn't mean I never cry. I do. A lot, actually. Just not in front of people. Favorite places include a washroom cubicle, my bed at night or any place where I can be alone until I get a better hold over my amuck emotions. Cry as much as you want, for as long as you want, it is a natural event. And after you're done, promise yourself you will not cry for the same reason. You might not always keep those promises, but it's worth a sincere effort too.<br />
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12. <i>Communication</i> can solve a lot of issues. <b><i>Talk to people.</i></b> If it's a particular person that has caused you to stress out, be upset or angry, talk to them. Be polite but effective. If it doesn't make a difference, you tried, but if it does, way to go! If you can't talk to that person or if it's an unfortunate circumstance in your life, talk to someone you love, someone you trust, someone who can tell you what to do (if there is a need), <i>someone who can hold you up and support you when you need them</i>, your best friend, you significant other, your family.<br />
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13. <i>Do something about your problem.</i> Take a step back, look at your problem, then solve it. If you don't think you can, ask for help. Find out how to tackle it and then do it. <b><i>Take action.</i></b> There's a solution to every problem, it's something I firmly believe in.<br />
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14.<b><i> Look up at the stars.</i></b> Yes. If I am unhappy and I am outside, I look up at the stars. It makes me feel better. Maybe it's the vastness of the universe and realizing how insignificant I am, or maybe it's just the beauty of it, but it helps.<br />
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This is life. It will have it's ups and downs, and it's up to you to decide what you do during those times. Take only the good from the bad (more difficult than it's sounds). Be happy.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-58111524226544761332017-02-12T11:08:00.001+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.155+05:30The little kid at the airport<p dir="ltr">Little dark eyes looked up<br>
A wave, and in return a shy smile<br>
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A curious glance, then a shy smile<br>
My heart grew distracted more<br>
Little nothings passed between us<br>
Then they walked away,<br>
The little boy, family, bags and all<br>
To an unknown design.</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-70966066791561622262017-01-30T11:17:00.001+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.201+05:30The January Santa<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-67748842332416073862017-01-08T10:19:00.001+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.183+05:30By the Window<p dir="ltr">Sitting by the window seat, the sun shining on my face, I wanted to tell someone how the clouds reminded me of cotton, of perhaps what heaven looked like, of how I wished I could jump from one to another, of what I dreamed and thought about. I wanted to explain how the light shining down on me made me feel different, special, how that one cloud looked like Dory from Finding Nemo, how whenever I travel I play out the scenario of a plane crash in my head, how I've felt the last few days, my hopes for the next few days, my inhibitions and worries, how my heart is breaking and no-one knows.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Sitting by the window seat, I also realised that I had noone to tell them to.</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-42373792139477005802016-12-31T13:48:00.001+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.127+05:30Blessed<p dir="ltr">"<i>We're born with millions of little lights shining in the dark</i><br>
<i>And they show us the way</i><br>
<i>One lights up every time you feel love in your heart</i><br>
<i>One dies when it moves away</i>"<br>
- <u>Passenger</u> (All the little lights)</p>
<p dir="ltr">This has been a long time coming. I haven't written for a long time, so well, let's start with something positive. Something happy to signify the end of the dark times, moments of self doubt and turmoil, and look forward with excitement to what life has ahead.</p>
<p dir="ltr">A huge thank you, to all those people, family, friends and strangers, who've made my day a little better.</p>
<p dir="ltr">A special one to those few wonderful souls out there, who send me something inspirational everyday (and I do mean every single day). You've been the light in many dark times. I cannot thank you enough. And you still do it, every single day, something to get me going. I'm so very grateful that I have you in my life. I can only hope I am the same to you, even if it's just a little bit, I'd like to be little light in your life.</p>
<p dir="ltr">I am blessed to have you all in my life.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Cheers to life of wonderful memories and love!<br>
-Anj</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-7740176214464154462016-06-24T22:09:00.001+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.218+05:30What it's like Being a Feminist<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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‘Feminism’, is <b>t<span style="background: white;">he </span>belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities</b>.<b> </b>Here is the link for the definition if you don’t believe me (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/feminism). Yes, you ignorant mortals, feminism addresses men’s rights and issues as well, only catch here is, talking about these issues when one is talking about women’s issues is not the right way to do it. Call a discussion on the discrimination against men, we can take it up, but most people seem to bring this up as a cause of concern only when there are women’s rights being discussed. Here is a link you can peruse about all the issues tackled by feminism when it comes to men’s issues- <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/3syhda/a_list_of_feminist_resources_tackling_mens_issues/" target="_blank">https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/3syhda/a_list_of_feminist_resources_tackling_mens_issues/ </a> Go on, read it, don’t chose to remain in ignorance when you are being offered knowledge.</div>
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<b>No, I do not hate men.</b> (Believe me, some people, even some friends have asked me this). All I can say to you is, please, for goodness sake; do your basic research you ignorant souls. Neither do I mean to convey that I hate men when I speak about the discrimination I face during my day-to-day life. I am addressing a truth that I face, every day of my life.</div>
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And for all those out there, who go, ‘No, I am not a feminist, but I support equality’, honestly, your ignorance has no boundaries does it? Again, the definition itself is self-explanatory (Feel free to analyse that one sentence definition again). Agreed, feminism started with women who wanted reforms and rights, this was at a time when women were not even allowed to vote (and P.S- If it weren’t for these ‘feminists’, most women still wouldn’t have any voting rights). Gradually as women started getting equal opportunities and some of their issues started to get addressed, feminism started addressing men’s issues as well (As I pointed out earlier).‘Feminism’, has taken the form of a ‘dirty’ word, that even some women are afraid to use it. Agreed, it has been grossly taken out of context by today’s media, some men and women, BOTH, and some extremists. What most people need to realise is what feminism actually stands for, which I hope will be clear to you (Come to think of it, I don’t particularly care if it does become clear to you or not, you can continue to keep that stick up your ass against feminism).</div>
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As a feminist, I do NOT think I am better than a man. I think I am equal and deserve equality. And NO I do not hate men.</div>
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As a feminist, I believe a man should be punished for domestic violence. It also means I believe a woman should get punished for domestic violence as well (and not simply cheered on, or ignored).</div>
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<b><br></b> Feminazi (or in fact any kind of ‘Nazi’), is a term which I have found only some of the world’s most mindless and insensible people use. It is NOT offensive to me, or to you, but it IS offensive to the millions of Jewish families who went through hell and suffered at the hands of the Nazis.<br>
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As a feminist, I will speak up against cat calling, eve-teasing, domestic violence, child marriages, dowry deaths, rape, public shaming and any other sort of discrimination against women. I will also stand as an ally to the LGBTQ+ community and fight for the recognition of their rights (Surprise, they are humans too). I will also fight for men when they are discriminated against.<br>
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Coming to my point, being a feminist and a girl (yes, men can be feminists too, surprise!) can be a test of your patience and your ability to remain silent and ignore the blatant ignorance of people around you. Every day you will face issues where the fact that you are feminist, will be rubbed into you, and most of the times it will be taken in a negative sense. You will be bullied intentionally or unintentionally by your own friends. If you dare speak up on the internet, you will be a victim of cyberbullying. If you are a young student and have dared make your views public, elders will come and preach to you about how it’s not right for a girl to be so vocally opinionated. If you have been eve teased and dared to defend yourself or call them out on it, you will be treated to verbal harassment for at least the next few days. You will also be told, by your own friends, how you should not have reacted because apparently then there will be no difference between you and them (To all of those people, here is the difference, I did not choose to call out a random person (girl) walking on the road and pass sexual innuendos at her, I am not the one choosing to act like an illiterate, that is the difference, just in case it wasn’t clear to you). You will be subjected to feminist jokes and everything will be made into a big show, just because you are a feminist. More than a few times, you will be left to stand alone in your views. You will be made to feel inferior for being a feminist (And just in case you are wondering, yes, ALL of the above are from personal experiences).</div>
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But you don’t stand alone. You will meet some people (admittedly very few), who understand you, support you and even believe in the same causes. Yes, you will meet men who are feminists too and not ashamed to declare it. These few men and women will be precious to you, hold on to them, they are perhaps the only ones who will understand you and support you when it comes to standing up for your beliefs. They will be the ones who are there for you when you are in doubt and start to question right from wrong (been there, done that!).<br>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-90846356493706563352016-06-21T23:34:00.001+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.242+05:30In Conclusion - Day 7<p dir="ltr">So I made it! And believe me, I almost missed this last day. It's 11:30 and I remembered; blogging for a week continuously was a promise I made to myself. And well, hurrah! I did it! </p>
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<p dir="ltr">Happiness is indeed a choice, albeit a difficult one. We get so used to the comfort of sorrow that we don't see it that way. I know I haven't. And I also know, that only when I make an effort to come out of it, do I see the bigger picture. So if there's anyone out there, who is suffering, in any way, know that it's upto you to come out of it. Be sad. Give it time. But do not get used to the solace offered by that feeling. The choice to be better is always upto you. The choice to make your own happiness.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Keep yourself involved. Stop over thinking. Do well by you. Be the better person. Forgive yourself. Give love freely. Have a clear mind. Make memories. Be you. Be the complete you. And stay happy.</p>
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Anjana </p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-74452857168276210332016-06-19T21:39:00.003+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.210+05:30Haiku: Another try<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-40003881603978434972016-06-16T19:18:00.000+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.122+05:30An Act of Kindness<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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At the end of each day, the old, worn out cobbler would come and give a little of whatever money he had made to the orphanage at the end of the street. He would move slowly but steadily into the office room of the orphanage. The lady of the orphanage, who took his deposits, never said anything; just the usual thanks were to suffice. The mischievous little boy, who always got called to the office, found this raggedy old man a very curious entity. Once he threw the ball at him, expecting an outburst, but the old man bent, took the ball, smiled and threw it back. He came every single day. His contributions were hardly worth anything, but he never stopped.</div>
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After making this routine journey, he would proceed walking home to a tent; he called home, on the outskirts of town. His load was heavy and his shoulders bent with them. Nevertheless, he carried on. A small fire built over collected twigs, and whatever little money from the day’s work could buy; putting some aside for the next day’s lunch, would be the dinner for the day. Many a day there had been without a meal, the stomach in turmoil, but the mind at peace. A long night would follow, wrapped in a thin, well-worn blanket with holes. Yet, the old man slept with a smile.</div>
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The next day is another long journey back into the city streets mending and polishing the shoes of those who were perhaps gifted with a better fortune. Work would be slow during lunch time. He would seek a quiet corner to take his lunch from the leftovers of yesterday out, wrapped in whatever piece of newspaper he would have found. Sometimes, one or the other street dogs would join him. A morsel was then shared. Work continued after lunch. The day dragged, slowly, but it did go on.</div>
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At the end of the day, the old man made his way to the orphanage at the end of the street. He moved slowly, tired, worn out, like the shoes he sometimes repaired. He put what he could spare into the hands of the lady of the orphanage. The mischievous little boy saw him again and bade no heed. He was no longer of interest when other distractions called. And then the old man made his long journey back.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-85505622947709173242016-06-15T18:31:00.000+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.229+05:30Sunday Sentiments<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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The curtains were flying, so I went to tie them up. It was 10 am, but still dark. ‘<i>It will rain today</i>’, the thoughts followed quickly. The cool air was a nice welcome, so I decided to sit on the window seat for a while. It felt nice. Having a corporate job with a hectic work life, and living in an apartment building where you don’t even know your neighbors tends to leave you with not many plans on a Sunday morning. It didn’t matter but. I cherished the moments I got to be alone with my own thoughts.</div>
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The trees were dancing, letting go of their oldest leaves, in despair perhaps. I thought. Why would you want to part with old friends? The clouds were rolling in and I could see lightning in the distance. Chilly and dark, the kind of dark where you feel the sun is fighting to establish that it is daytime and not night. Everyone loves this weather. What is it about this climate that made everyone so happy?</div>
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The wind uplifted my souls from the dreary depths it had chosen to rest in, for the past almost one year. After a long time, I felt like a part of my own story, I felt in control, but mostly I felt at peace. I closed my eyes and let it wash over me. ‘<i>Take it away, all of it’</i>, I whispered to the wind. And the wind complied, it slowly touched corners of my heart I thought I’d never set free again, and washed away the dust that had collected. For the first time, in a long time, every bit of me was awash in light. I let out a deep breath I didn’t realise I was holding in. I smiled, and my eyes fluttered close. So I just sat there, doing nothing, but feeling. Feeling all the emotions I’d been holding in, letting go of what negativity I’d been holding on to, promising myself all the things I would do.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-55135269999038013942016-05-29T22:51:00.001+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.150+05:30Of love...<p dir="ltr">You know how there are different kinds of love...the filial kind, the romantic kind, the friend love, the random acts of love love. <br>
The saddest of them all is a love that once was, and never could be the same again.</p>
<p dir="ltr">One of my favourite books, Gone with the Wind, ended with Rhett Butler telling Scarlett that he didn't love her anymore.  I'd keep wondering how is it possible for someone to stop loving a person.  And I didn't believe it. But now I do. And needless to say, it's a scary thought. To think that someone who once pledged the world to you, someone who said they loved you till the moon and back could one day just walk away from it all. And it wouldn't make a difference. So is there anything like true love? There is this part of me that desperately wishes for someone to tell me that, yes, there is, but then the majority of my mind tends to be rational about it. So much of me wishes I could be that one exception to the rule, but well, beggars can't be choosers in the hands of destiny. Sad. So is there no thing called 'true love'?</p>
<p dir="ltr">We do feel it inherently for family, I believe. But saying that you love someone outside your family, leaves my mind ringing with bells of falsehood. Being completely honest, I <u>find</u> it incredibly hard to completely believe in the possibility of that kind of love existing. And I hope to God someone proves me wrong one day.</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-35710112846325459672016-03-22T23:07:00.000+05:302018-06-01T14:29:20.111+05:30Today I finally realized what it truly meant!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Give love, even if you don’t receive it. Give it
unconditionally. Don’t expect anything in return (sounds so clichéd but believe
me, it wasn’t until today that I truly understood the true meaning). When you
give love, the happiness reflected on someone else makes you happy too. Care
for others, and show them that you care. Spare a thought for everyone. There’s
nothing wrong in it. No expectations, no regrets, and no attachments. Live
happily. You’ll do just fine. Make happiness your only goal. <span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-84631758196094183702016-03-20T18:59:00.000+05:302016-03-20T18:59:15.605+05:30Handbook for Life #1<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Stay
Positive:</b> There will always be bad times, hurdles, rough patches, you can’t
ask for sunshine and colours without expecting darkness now and again. Through
it all, keep your head above the rising waters, think happy thoughts, and don’t
let those negative thoughts push you down. It’s hard to be positive all the
time, but try and keep the negative ones at bay.</div>
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Don’t
compare:</b> There will always be someone better, more successful, more social,
more good looking or more popular than you. Don’t compare yourselves with them.
Your only comparison should be you and how much you have grown over the years
and how much more can you improve. You are your own challenge.</div>
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Let your
life be your own:</b> Many a times you start living the way other people expect
you to live, it may or may not be the way you want to live it. You start
changing things you have always wanted to do because of someone else’s opinions;
it could be your family or someone you love even. I know because I have made
decisions based on someone I love’s opinions, and speaking from experience,
don’t do that. Of course if it’s wrong (illegal, etc), well, don’t do it. But
if it’s something you really want, then go ahead, don’t let others opinions
hinder you. Live for yourself.</div>
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Fall in
love and then fall out of it:</b> You need to experience this, not just the
romantic kind (although yeah, fall in love!). Get your heart broken in
friendships or with that guy you-used-to-know.
Only then will you know how to love, your faults, your shortcomings,
what you did right, what you did wrong, what you want from a friend or a
partner in life. After all, it’s all trials and errors.</div>
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Make
memories, live in the moment:</b> Just because you have had a bad day, don’t
let that affect the time you spend with your friends/ family later on. Even if
you end up crying all alone at nights, laugh and enjoy that dinner you all had
been planning for weeks, or that random lunch you end up going to with all your
friends. You can be sad, upset or angry, but not with the people who didn’t
have any role to play in making you feel that way. Enjoy that time with them,
you need it more that you know (I should take my own advice here!).</div>
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Be
childish at times:</b> Okay, I don’t mean be immature and whiny (and no, that’s
not what I think of children!), but do those things you feel like doing at
times but then you talk yourself out of it because that would just make you
look so immature. I realised this the other day at the mall when I finally gave
in to the urge to climb up an escalator going down. And that really made me
feel good, it’s a small thing, but trust me; it makes you feel so free.</div>
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Friends
will come and go:</b> You are continuously moving through life, and you will
meet and make friends all the time, with some you will make everlasting memories
with, even though things might not end up well in the end. No one is perfect.
In the end, humans will always be selfish. There’s nothing called selfless
friendship, so don’t expect too much.
Enjoy the good times, but be prepared to face the hard times alone.</div>
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Be kind
to everyone:</b> There are times when we are so distracted, that we don’t
really ‘listen’ to what others are trying to tell us. I know I do that. Be kind
to everyone, treat everyone with respect, and be fair. Actually ‘listen’ to
what they are telling you and what they are not. Everyone is going through some
tough times; everyone has their demons that haunt them. Don’t judge them (I
know I do, although I’d like to believe not so much now). You don’t know their
story. Be kind. If you can’t help them, then just listen and empathize.</div>
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Keep your
expectation low:</b> Or you will end up getting disappointed. It could be
people, situations or something you had been looking forward to for weeks,
things will not always go according to plans. It’s something that we all
struggle with (I know I do, a lot, especially when it comes to people!). One
thing I have learned is never expect a lot from people, family or friends. Take
a few deep breaths and let go of the expectations, you will live a happier life
when you do.</div>
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appreciate being alone:</b> Learn to love your own company. Don’t be a loner
but appreciate that time you have to spend with yourself. Introspect. You will
come to know yourself better. Realize that you’re living this life alone and
you don’t ‘need’ anyone along for this journey. People will tag along on this
journey, some will get off at some stations, some will take the other way, some
you will miss, some you would never want to leave, but know that your
destination is yours alone. No one is getting off at that destination with you,
you will be alone. Learn to love that.</div>
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yourself enough:</b> No, I’m not asking you to be selfish. Rather love and
respect yourself enough to know when something, instead of developing you as an
individual is only harming you. Know when to put a stop to it. It could be a
bad habit, unhealthy relationships, or even something you have been doing for a
long time. Let go of it, no matter how difficult it is for you to do this. It
will take time, but in the end you will be happy.</div>
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</span><!--[endif]--><b>Everything
will be okay in the end:</b> Things are hard, they will be. Friends will leave.
You may not get that job you wanted and worked so hard for. You may fail an
exam. You will have relationship problems. The work load will stress you out.
Everything that you love or worked hard for will fall apart around you. Your
will have family troubles. But this isn’t the end. You will come out of it
stronger, better prepared and with your head held high. There’s always light at
the end of the tunnel. If it’s still not okay, then it’s not the end. Have
faith, and just live.</div>
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And then I realized these things are so easy to preach but
so hard to practice. Honestly, it would do me a world of good if I followed my
own advice at times. But well, no one is perfect. However, you reach a point in
your life when you realize how important these things are to follow, and I
think I am there. Now the next step is to follow them which hopefully you and I
both will.</div>
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Cheers to life comrades! We’re all in this together.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-71106810969947832642016-03-13T17:57:00.001+05:302016-03-13T17:57:27.307+05:30Of God, Religion and Rights<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Not something I would chose to write on easily, but lately
my thoughts keep circling around this.</div>
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I wouldn’t call myself a religious person, no. For me,
religion has always been a concept introduced by humans to stay within the
lines of morality and as an attempt to bring some sort of order into this
chaotic world. That’s how I have always looked at it. But then I am of the view
that religion isn’t necessary to stay within those moral boundaries. In fact I
have atheist friends who are better human beings than some of my theist ones
(this isn’t meant to point at people) or vice versa. </div>
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For me God and religion are two completely separate
entities. You can say I believe in God, but not in religion. Perhaps, it is
because of the way of thinking around which I was brought up. Actually, that is
the reason for how my standpoint is today. I was raised by a father who spent
nights telling me stories from each and every religion. And that’s what they
were to me, stories; stories spun by old men from days past and read out as the
only truth over generations. Perhaps that is the reason I believe in God as
well, because of the beliefs surrounding my formative years as a child. And
that’s what it amounts to in the end; your beliefs are a result of your
surroundings, and no one belief can be justified as right or wrong. Be it an
atheist, agnostic or a theist, it doesn’t matter. Everyone has a right to their
own beliefs and justifications. </div>
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Discussions on these have always been tiresome and hardly
ever end without at least one of the parties getting offended. Heaven forbid, a
person walking out not offended from that particular debate. My views, now that
I read through what I just wrote, sound lax and vague. I would be lying if I said I do
not get offended by some of these discussions. I do, and hence the general
avoidance of the whole matter. </div>
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I believe in God, I believe in prayers, I believe that
everyone has a right to their own beliefs and I believe that no one faith is
greater than the other. Most religions teach us that anyway, it’s just that,
some of us in our deep piousness tend to overlook that little fact and
interpret the words of holy books in our own way. But then again, there is
nothing wrong in that, as long as you do not start denying others their basic
rights based on your take on the matter. Live and let live. </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-80351891634890264632016-03-06T10:44:00.001+05:302016-03-06T14:02:22.540+05:30Coloured Perches<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"> ‘<i>The first to apologise is the bravest, the first to forgive is the
strongest and the first to forget is the happiest.</i>’</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Growing up and passing through this journey of life, you
meet a lot of people; some stay, some leave, and some leave impressions on you
that last a lifetime, while some just slowly fade away and blow away with the
wind of lost memories.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Of my short, perhaps ‘not yet much experienced’ life, I have
come across people who I can categorize into well, three categories (I
felt like a judgemental ass writing that, but oh well!).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">There are those who forgive and forget. They are perhaps the
most innocent, or rather pure of souls, incapable of holding any grudge against
the people around them. A simply apology makes everything alright. Even before
the apology, they accept whatever they have faced, and well...move on. These
people, they amaze me, I have the utmost respect and I stand in awe of them,
for I know I am one of those people who cannot ever be like them. The world
needs these happy-go-lucky souls, they are perhaps the reason optimism still
persists in abundance in a world in need of such positivity. The world, for
them is black and white. There is however, a darker side to such glowing naiveté
(I acknowledge I might not be right in calling them that). But the world would
find it easy to take advantage of these happy souls. In an ideal world, the
possibility is hardly relevant but in the real world, it’s hardly so. There
will always be, after all, two sides to everything.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Then there are those like me. Forgive, but not forget. It’s
perhaps the easiest of choices, but I don’t know how to explain this. I believe
a vast majority of the people can identify with this. These people, they play
by throwing caution to the wind. Forgiveness comes easy, but forgetting proves
a harder fight. There are not many they trust and trust for them is fragile,
easily broken, and a prized possession, like strings, once broken, there will
always remain a knot. They are more practical in their nature, but riddled with
doubts on everything. This attitude might prove more effective in the real
world, but in the long run results in tunnel vision. They are perhaps even
inclined towards more pessimism than optimism. The world for them is grey.
There is always a reason and an explanation to everything. Some of them hold on
to the grudges, some let go, but with both, the memory of the experience still
remains. Speaking from experience, it’s not a very pleasant state to be in. You
learn to let go of the feelings, but you take the lessons with you.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And finally, the ones who never forgive nor forget. You come
across a few of them now and then, and as always they do not fail to amuse me.
On a much lesser scale of the damage done, their antics are hilarious to
observe (speaking from my sardonic and hardened perch). But on a larger scale, result
in a bitter way of life, always complaining (whining rather!) lifestyle filled
with pessimism. They are not always this noticeable though; some just stay
quiet and silently breed and garner the growing pile of grudges. It might prove
helpful at times, in context of winning an argument or some slight matter at
hand. But in the long run, it doesn’t leave you with many friends or loved
ones. For them the black and white world is continuously changing according to
their needs, feelings and desires. Nothing remains white, or black, always
changing, never constant.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">This is just one perspective, there are different types of people, depends on what vista
you chose to observe from. There are so many perspectives, different angles,
divergent, individual, distinct opinions. They all matter, for they are your
own. I know I am not right in my distinctions (I strongly believe we are
different yet the same, there’s no complete black and white, always grey), but
then they are my distinctions and ultimately my choices. Every individual has
their own outlook on life, on people, on experiences, and no one outlook is right,
nor wrong. They all matter, for they all speak of our own different, individual
signatures that we chose to leave behind for the world to see, our impressions
and legacies.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15612264628176374380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4783517819263169876.post-1886452001290167842016-02-10T18:45:00.001+05:302016-02-10T18:45:53.305+05:30Today<p dir="ltr">That sudden urge to cry in the midst of laughter. <br>
Sometimes being so good at pretending is not what you need. And sometimes that's all you need to make it through the day.<br>
Then at the end of the day, you realise happiness is a choice, a hard one, but nevertheless a choice.</p>
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